Couples Communication Lab

with Lolo Halman and Sara Eden Gally

October 27th, 10am-2pm at Wild Hearts Wellness, 4230 NE Fremont Street, Portland



Are you interested in building skills to move through conflict more fluidly with your partner?


In times of conflict, do you and your partner:

repeat the same conversations?

reach temporary resolution that doesn't last?

feel adversarial rather than collaborative?


If any of these resonate for you, this lab will help you and your partner to:

break out of cyclical conflict and find more satisfying resolution

connect more deeply through times of conflict

build a greater sense of ‘we’ as a team


Join Lolo Halman (Dipl. PW) and Sara Eden Gally (AMFT) to learn body-based communication methods to transform conflict with your partner. This ‘lab’ is a space to practice with your partner using the tools introduced and to get coaching from skilled conflict facilitators while doing so.


What to expect in the workshop:


- practice embodied exercises to build a greater awareness of your inner experiences when most activated

- learn practical tools for reflecting your partner’s experience from a deeper, more curious place

- witness & learn from a couple being facilitated through conflict by Lolo & Sara Eden

- gain approaches for interrupting cycles of escalation and returning to center

and more!




Location and time


Sunday, October 27th from 10am-2pm at Wild Hearts Wellness, 4230 NE Fremont St, Portland


Cost


Couples Communication Lab is offered on a 3-tiered pricing model, with a base rate of $175/couple and discounted tickets listed below. Maximum of 10 couples.


Base rate: $175/couple

Discounted rate 1: $130/couple

Discounted rate 2: $90/couple

‘Pay-it-forward’ rate: $225/couple


Payment may be sent to @lolohaha on Venmo.





A Quick Guide to the Tiered Pricing Model

(taken from Worts and Cunning)

While you can look at more thorough info about what a tiered pricing model is and why we use it here, below is a very brief rundown :

The top pricing tier is the base rate of this offering. If you choose a rate below the base rate you are receiving a discount.

The middle pricing tier is for those who are able to meet their basic needs but have little-to-no expendable income. This tier is for whom paying at the base rate would qualify as a sacrifice but not create significant hardship.

The bottom pricing tier is for those who struggle to meet basic needs, and for whom paying at the base rate would create significant hardship.

The Pay-It-Forward price is a few bucks above the base rate of this offering; that extra money goes towards supporting scholarships as well as future free and low-cost offerings. Essentially it's an opportunity to not only take this offering but also support your fellow community members while you're at it. Sweet!


Facilitator Bios



Lolo Halman (he/him) is a counselor and conflict facilitator dedicated to helping individuals, partners, and families navigate the complexities of their personal and relational lives. He has worked in social change work of various types for over a decade, seeing our skills for conflict resolution as one of the core capacities we need to build as a society toward collective liberation. He largely works with couples and individuals in private practice, and specializes in working with nonmonogamous partnerships.






Sara Eden Gally (they/them) is a queer, non-binary, somatic therapist who specializes in working with relationships of all structures. They believe that our individual healing is a part of the work of our collective liberation, and that while working together with a focus on clients' well-being, we support the whole community's well-being, in turn. Sara Eden has trained extensively in somatic and mindfulness based modalities, has designed and facilitated communication workshops since 2010, and is a Zen Buddhist practitioner.